By Rintu Basu
November 12th, 2013
NLP Learning, NLP Training
This article is about a particular accelerated learning technique that can dramatically improve your ability to use hypnotic language patterns. And as a bonus you will get to learn another fun and easy to use language pattern.
Try Before You Buy
I’ve seen a lot of people fall in to an interesting double bind in many different learning situations. Some people won’t use a skill until they are good at the skill. The obvious issue here is without using the skill you are unlikely to get any good at it. Conversely the more you use the skill the better you get at it.
This is a particular problem with hypnotic language patterns. They are only likely to work once you have made the pattern your own and it appears as part of your natural speech. Even passed that point there are a whole number of variables that will determine if the pattern works in any given situation.
Another typical reaction to learning patterns is a need to understand how a pattern works, where you would use it, how to set up to use it in a conversation and a million other details. The reality is that you can only get proper answers to those questions through the experience of using the pattern.
The Failure of Our School System
There is a lot that our schools do right in educating us. But one thing that schools tend to ingrain is a fear of failure. Here is the reality of failure. All of your growth and your development is outside your comfort zone. You learn fastest when you can explore, play and accept not getting things right first time.
For you to succeed at learning new skills failure is an inevitably part of the process. As such every time you fail with your new skill you should be out celebrating because you are learning, growing and developing. The nature of fast development is all about celebrating and learning from our failures. In fact the more you fail the closer to success you get. With this in mind I have a particular approach to learning hypnotic language patterns that I share with people.
The Pattern of the Day Approach
The best way of learning hypnotic language is to take a pattern and over use it. Play with it, try and fit it into a conversation as many times as possible. As you do this you will learn how to control the conversation to get the pattern in. You will notice what has to go before the pattern and after the pattern to make it work. You will notice how the pattern impacts the person you are speaking with. You will learn to cover your mistakes, how to recover from being found out, stumbling over your words and just talking word salad. The more you use a particular pattern the more you find yourself instinctively using that pattern.
But best of all you will quickly let go of any outcome other than to play with the pattern. And that is where the magic starts to happen. In essence the more you let go of the outcome the more you find that you get your outcomes.
Something to Get You Started
Here is a great little pattern you can use. The game is to use it in the same conversation a minimum of three times. You may well find the more you just use the pattern the more you will find how easy it is to use the pattern. Then to come back here and report your findings:
The more you (x) the more you (y)
The more you (do what I want) the more you will (gain benefit) from it. The phrase presupposes that you will do (x) and that the more you do it the more you gain (y) You only need three examples to understand what is going on and the more example you come up with the more you will find this pattern spontaneously occurs. Here are three more examples:
- The more you lick my belly button the more you will get to enjoy it
- The more you say these patterns out loud the more you understand how they work
- The more you learn hypnotic language the more fun you will have getting people to do your bidding
The More You Play Patterns the Better You Get
If you want a clear, straightforward guide to learning and running a few hypnotic language patterns to gain some more influence and persuasive ability then click through and find out more here: