Comments on: Tops Ways to Destroy Your Self Esteem http://www.thenlpcompany.com/tops-ways-to-destroy-your-self-esteem/ Free NLP Techniques, Persuasion Techniques, Conversational Hypnosis Tue, 10 Jan 2012 12:51:00 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3 By: Rintu Basu http://www.thenlpcompany.com/tops-ways-to-destroy-your-self-esteem/#comment-97872 Rintu Basu Fri, 30 Dec 2011 23:55:00 +0000 http://www.thenlpcompany.com/?p=2797#comment-97872 Good result, well done. Good result, well done.

]]> By: Rintu Basu http://www.thenlpcompany.com/tops-ways-to-destroy-your-self-esteem/#comment-97871 Rintu Basu Fri, 30 Dec 2011 23:53:00 +0000 http://www.thenlpcompany.com/?p=2797#comment-97871 I completely agree with you Pete and this is my exact point. An event is just an event you are encoding the meaning on to it.Once you know that you are creating this distortion you can start working your way free of opinions...even your own. I completely agree with you Pete and this is my exact point. An event is just an event you are encoding the meaning on to it.Once you know that you are creating this distortion you can start working your way free of opinions…even your own.

]]> By: Judepw http://www.thenlpcompany.com/tops-ways-to-destroy-your-self-esteem/#comment-97870 Judepw Fri, 30 Dec 2011 15:19:00 +0000 http://www.thenlpcompany.com/?p=2797#comment-97870 Thanks Rintu, another inspiring piece! After my NLP practitioner course and also reading your Black Book I love using these sort of skills to empower myself and others... just this morning a friend was complaining about her housemate and how messy she is, always leaving the house dirty and untidy. She will soon be moving out into her own place but the friendship is suffering meanwhile, so I gently suggested that perhaps her housemate just doesn't think about tidiness as much because she has other things on her mind; its just not her "reality"... and what a fantastic learning experience it is in my friends reality because she may well appreciate her own place (and the tidiness) a lot lot more as a result - so it's actually a great gift that her friend is giving her. I'm pleased to say her colour warmed and the smile returned and I hope her feelings towards her housemate will be a little more relaxed as a result :) Thanks Rintu, another inspiring piece! After my NLP practitioner course and also reading your Black Book I love using these sort of skills to empower myself and others… just this morning a friend was complaining about her housemate and how messy she is, always leaving the house dirty and untidy. She will soon be moving out into her own place but the friendship is suffering meanwhile, so I gently suggested that perhaps her housemate just doesn’t think about tidiness as much because she has other things on her mind; its just not her “reality”… and what a fantastic learning experience it is in my friends reality because she may well appreciate her own place (and the tidiness) a lot lot more as a result – so it’s actually a great gift that her friend is giving her. I’m pleased to say her colour warmed and the smile returned and I hope her feelings towards her housemate will be a little more relaxed as a result :)

]]> By: Pete http://www.thenlpcompany.com/tops-ways-to-destroy-your-self-esteem/#comment-97869 Pete Fri, 30 Dec 2011 10:33:00 +0000 http://www.thenlpcompany.com/?p=2797#comment-97869 Self-confidence requires people to be confident in themselves without the support of other people's opinions. http://goo.gl/cjCdy Self-confidence requires people to be confident in themselves without the support of other people’s opinions. http://goo.gl/cjCdy

]]> By: Rintu Basu http://www.thenlpcompany.com/tops-ways-to-destroy-your-self-esteem/#comment-97863 Rintu Basu Wed, 28 Dec 2011 12:49:00 +0000 http://www.thenlpcompany.com/?p=2797#comment-97863 Thanks Stuart,                         That is a really great example of the sort of thing we are talking about. It is amazing how much our opinions can change so quickly with just one little piece of extra information. And where my thoughts are if we do this naturally we can learn to do this for ourselves when we need it and do it with others. Thanks again for the example. Cheers Rintu Thanks Stuart,
                        That is a really great example of the sort of thing we are talking about. It is amazing how much our opinions can change so quickly with just one little piece of extra information. And where my thoughts are if we do this naturally we can learn to do this for ourselves when we need it and do it with others.

Thanks again for the example.

Cheers

Rintu

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