I am often asked about why I appear different from many of the run of the mill NLP trainers that are out there. Most trainers have different values, beliefs and experience so are likely to be different one way or another. The real issue is how does that impact the learning that they can give you. Here is one way I am different and how you benefit from this approach.
NLP Techniques: Dealing with Failure
This article is a video on how failure impacts confidence and how we are better off by thinking things differently about both failure and confidence.
NLP Reframing and Confidence
This article has further ideas about how you can do things without needing any confidence to do them.
Confidence and Why You Don’t Need It
This article is just a short video that looks at confidence. It covers some basic ideas around confidence and why you don’t need to have confidence to get things done.
The Truth about Comfort Zones
If like me you have been force fed the idea that you “must” step outside of your comfort zone to learn then this article is for you. Here is some fresh thinking on comfort zones and how you can accelerated your personal development by staying right in the middle of your comfort zone.
The One NLP Technique that lets you win EVERY Time
You might find the head line a bit fanciful and I would suggest that the idea that we will discuss in this article will work every time and in every situation. I will suggest that sometimes it is not easy to do. But imagine having a technique that lets you win just one percent more than you normally do just how different would your life be. If you have not already got the idea I think this is the most powerful concept NLP.
Who do you want to be next year?
I wrote this article a few years ago and the technique I demonstrate is so powerful it is worth a reshowing. If you struggle at this time of year with the whole goal setting thing here is an alternate view.
Never Fall into the Trap of Positive Thinking
Positive thinking is a dangerous trap. Many people that espouse twee little motivational sound bites have no idea of of the damage they are causing to themselves and others.
Eating Lentil Sandwiches for Personal Development
Over the last few years there has been a lot said about the law of attraction that is just the most ludicrous, dumbed down bunch of nonsense being sold to desperate beige cardigan wearing lentil sandwich eating tree huggers with more money than sense. Here are some ideas of what is really going on and how you really can attract things in to your life.
Live Today Like a Yesterday You Will Want to Remember Tomorrow
The topic for today is time distortions. You can use time distortions as a pattern interrupt like the title of this article. But that is only a tiny part of how you can use these patterns. Consider our perception of time as malleable. How useful is it to be able to speed it up, slow it down, insert new things into the past and project out good things into the future as if it is already here? I’ve recently been asked about time distortion, so here is an article about it.