NLP Techniques to Frame a Conversation

By Rintu Basu NLP Courses, NLP Learning, NLP Training No Comments 25th June 2013

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The video you will see in today’s article is a demonstration of how you can covertly install a set of frames so that your audience has to follow the path that you set out for them. This works for individuals as much as groups.

Preframes, the Key to Persuasion

Over the last few articles you have seen Hypnosis Tools and NLP Techniques where you can subvert the frames and as a result lead people anywhere you want to go. And in many cases you actually want to do this in a much gentler, less obvious and covert way.

Here a seven minute video that will show you how I do it in a training room. This will work in lots of different contexts. All you need to do is work out the exact process for your situation. To get the most out of the video you may want to watch it a few times. Probably four times. If you are short for time feel free to watch once but simultaneously on four different levels.

Level One: Watch for Content

The information in these seven minutes is really useful. If you have never met this sort of thinking before then this is going to completely change the way you look at conversations and what happens inside your head when people talk to you. Welcome to never having a normal conversation again.

Level Two: Listen for Patterns

My intention with this audience is to draw them in so they listen, are amazed with the material, accept me as an authority and allow me to lead them through the rest of the talk. As a consequence I am chunking and sequencing the information I give them in a particular way. By analysing the patterns I am using and the sequences I am putting them in you will dramatically increase your understanding of how hypnotic language works.

Level Three: Application

Think about how you could use the same patterns and processes. As I play with this audience you can see that I start to turning it into stuff they can directly apply. Obviously I had previously asked them for some applications and I am starting to tailor the content specifically for what they said. But you are also outside the interaction between me and the audience and that means you can take not only my content but also my process and apply it to your situation.

And as for level four…ask yourself what I have already done to preframe the video that you are about to see and how does this affect your view of it before you have even seen it.

All the Fun of Learning Great Skills

There will be some readers that will be looking at this video and be thinking why bother watching at such depth. The reality is by learning on multiple levels like this dramatically increases your knowledge of how persuasion works. Being outside of the system but knowing what is going on allows you to discover a different level of content than you could normally gain.. It is not about watching a video a few times it is all about developing your skills, watching human interactions and the immense sense of excitement you get when these things work for yourself.

My generally philosophy is that I want to work hard at playing with this material when I don’t need it…so when it is really important the skills kick in and work without me having to focus on them.

Tags: Accelerated Learning, Influence, Persuasion